In many families, frequent quarrels between husband and wife are not uncommon. These conflicts may begin with minor disagreements but can escalate into serious arguments. Sadly, such disputes can have deep and lasting negative effects on children-both mentally and physically. When exposed to ongoing conflict, children may lose their appetite, have trouble sleeping, suffer from anxiety, become inattentive in their studies, appear sad or withdrawn, smile less, and in severe cases, even consider self-harm or suicide.
Growing up in an environment filled with conflict can foster negative thinking in children. Over time, they may become desensitised to this behaviour, leading them to disrespect or try to dominate their parents. This emotional detachment can weaken the bond between parents and children. Since the early years are critical for shaping a child's character, what they observe at home becomes a blueprint for their own behaviour. It is essential, therefore, that parents set a positive example by nurturing a healthy and respectful relationship.
Parents should be mindful not to argue in front of their children. Maintaining a calm and supportive atmosphere helps children feel secure. Disagreements should be addressed privately to avoid leaving a harmful impression on young minds. Mutual respect is vital; when children see their parents treating each other with dignity, they learn to do the same. Disrespectful behaviour, on the other hand, can lead children to take sides or lose respect for one or both parents.
A warm, cooperative relationship between spouses sets a powerful example. It fosters a positive home environment where children learn empathy, kindness, and how to build healthy relationships. Expression of love and affection-whether through kind words, thoughtful gestures, or simply spending quality time together-strengthen the family bond and give children a sense of pride and security.
Ultimately, a peaceful, respectful, and affectionate home is one of the greatest gifts parents can offer. It lays the foundation for children to grow into emotionally resilient, confident, and respectful individuals.
Sanjida Jahan Shammi
Student, Daffodil International University
