Know these wedding etiquettes to avoid embarrassment!

Bangladesh is in its wedding season, and according to a survey, there will be approximately 38 lakh weddings during this season. So, get geared up for a flood of "Alhamdulillah, we both said Qubool."
But did you notice there is some unwritten wedding etiquette no one teaches you but provides tea when someone else does? Imagine you are attending a wedding where the cousins, bridesmaids, and inlaws are so dolled up that you can hardly recognise which one is the actual bride. It may sound funny, but that is quite the average wedding scene.
Well, to save you from some future unwanted situations, here is our curated list of doings and undoings: wedding edition. Believe it or not, attending a wedding entails far more than dressing up and dancing the night away.
Do not take the bride's thunder
The wedding is all about the bride and groom; it is their day to look their best. It would be unfair to outshine them. Do not go for extravagant maroon-red colours with a bridal base. Don't be underdressed, either; it will be awkward when everyone else is glamoured. Try sticking with the dress code provided, or go for something in pastel with a light party makeover.
Don't open up your opinion
Having opinions is fine, but opening up at the venue won't be wise. Both the families tried their best to host the best one and don't ruin it by sharing your negative thoughts on oily Kachchi, shabby decoration or passing comments on someone's look and something that doesn't warrant an opinion. Obviously, sharing positive comments will make you see their precious smile.
Stop clicking their photos
The couple has already hired a photographer, but with hundreds of phones crammed around the bride, they can't be getting the greatest picture possible. Although you might be eager to capture their 'walking down the aisle' moment, experienced photographers can capture them better. And ask for their permission before sharing their moments on social media, as not everyone is comfortable sharing their pictures online.
Buffet behaviour
In an all-you-can-eat buffet, try behaving accordingly. Having all the delicious foods may be tempting, but leave some for others and ensure your plate doesn't seem like a tiny hill.
Bringing uninvited guests
Bengali weddings generally have extra arrangements for uninvited guests, but that doesn't mean you bring whole shenanigans. Never invite additional guests unless you are requested to.
Do not steal their limelight
As mentioned earlier, it's their day, and don't ruin this by creating any scene. Though it may be thrilling announcing your engagement, wedding, promotion or parenthood, it will take all the attention to you for a short time but ruin their day.
Check your behaviour
It's hard to imagine a Bengali wedding scene without Khalu or Fufa throwing tantrums. Wedding hosts frequently receive complaints about not being properly welcomed, not receiving enough attention, or not being handled in the same manner as another guest. The hosts are already under pressure to make the wedding memorable for the guests. Don't be a nuisance yourself.
Bring an appropriate gift
When attending a wedding or an event, a gift for the couple is expected. Take a gift that is beautifully wrapped. If you can't think of anything to give, do your homework, search for what the couple likes, or something they may need to start a new life. If you can't still sort ideas, give them a cash envelope.
Attend timely
It's not so cute to attend late. Yes, no one can predict the jam, but try reaching the venue at least 30 minutes before the time. Reaching early, you will get the whole venue to click your Insta-worthy pictures. If the bride and groom are close friends or relatives, you should arrive early to spend time together before they get busy with the ceremonies and the remainder of the day's events.
And please do not bring the tissues, toothpicks, or mukhwas lying on the table. And with these, you are all set to have the #BestWeddingGuest award. Congratulations!

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