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No party time now

Neil Ray | Monday, 16 December 2013


12.12.12, they declared, was an auspicious day. Lovers fell for the sought-after date. There were marriages galore on that day last year. Call it a fad, if you like. But one thing remains unchallenged. Those who tied their knot will have to time travel to forget the date of their marriage anniversary. Further, it is an especial day because the date comes after a century. But unfortunately no couple is expected to celebrate their 100th marriage anniversary. The eagerness to get married on that date can be understood but what is so especial about 11.12.13? Those who missed the boat last year have invented that this too is a highly distinct date and therefore ought to be auspicious as well.
Unsurprisingly, lovers around the world took opportunity of this date also for getting married. There is no reason to think that love birds in Bangladesh were not moved by the opportune moment to put a formal stamp on their relationship. But they were not lucky enough to celebrate the occasion according to their plan. All because, this is no time for celebration in Bangladesh. There is no guarantee for people to come home alive or without injury. Sudden bomb attacks are carried out even on the day when no political programmes have been announced. Indiscriminate arson, vandalism and bomb attacks can take away any unwitting innocent people's life anywhere.
When the situation is so grave, there is hardly any sane person who will go for celebration of such social occasions as birth anniversary, wedding ceremony or anniversary or reception or even a friendly get-together or reunion. This has been reflected in the business of community or party centres, decoration shops and culinary by local chefs. November-December and in fact the entire winter season is favoured by people for arrangement of many social gatherings including outings or picnics away from the hustle and bustle of city life. This year, no such activities are noticed. People must survive first and then look for entertainment and enjoyment. Such occasions have been kept on hold.
Normal routines of people have been terribly upset as a result of the violent political programmes. People's safety and security concerns do not allow them to move beyond certain parameter. Lawlessness is reigning supreme now. If the so-called political activists do not target innocent people, there are other anti-social goons who take advantage of the diverted attention of law enforcers to mug or snatch valuables or money from unsuspecting rickshaw-riders or pedestrians. Even the users of cars are now compelled to take rickshaw rides.  The tactics resorted to by muggers are novel. Like others they too are desperate now.
So community/party centres, decorators and professional cooks who count on their seasonal hectic business are finding it dull. Many may be forced to fold their business because this is no party time. Life's rhythm has gone haywire and people cannot afford the luxury of throwing or attending a party in this most difficult time.