Ode to the fathers who shield our dream from the grasp of inflation
AHNAF TAHMID FAHID | Wednesday, 14 June 2023
In a country where the cost of living continues to rise, and inflation takes its toll, some unsung heroes bear the burden and shield their families from its impact - our fathers. They are hardworking people who tirelessly navigate the challenges of harsh reality to ensure a better life for their families.
As we celebrate Father's Day next week, it is a fitting time to focus on the unwavering spirit of these tireless fathers who, no matter what, stay persistent in their goal of a better future for their children.
In Bangladesh, fathers often take on the role of the sole breadwinner, labouring day in and day out to provide for their loved ones. They shoulder immense responsibilities, juggling work, finances, and familial obligations with grace and determination. Their unwavering commitment makes them the backbone of the household, ensuring that their children have access to a better future despite the economic challenges they face.
These hardworking fathers make countless sacrifices to shield their families from the brunt of inflation. They don't want to downgrade their children's lifestyle even for a little bit. In times of crisis, our fathers somehow manage and take all the pain to keep things normal. They work long hours, sometimes in physically demanding jobs, just to make ends meet. They forgo their desires, dreams, and even personal comfort to ensure their children receive the best possible opportunities. Their sacrifices are often silent, but their impact is profound and immeasurable.
"Fathers are like a banyan tree that gives shade over you. I remember when Android phones just started to be popular in our country, and I demanded an Android phone from my father. At that time, none of my family members had a smartphone. And my father gave away the first and only Android phone in our family to me. This incomparable love is nowhere else to be found," shared Shohaib Ahmed, a Civil Engineering undergraduate at North South University.
Many fathers in Bangladesh come from humble backgrounds and have witnessed firsthand the harsh realities of poverty. Yet, they refuse to let these circumstances define their children's future. They persevere and strive to provide their children with access to education, healthcare, and a better standard of living. These fathers are not deterred by the rising education costs or the soaring prices of essential commodities. Instead, they find innovative ways to make ends meet, ensuring their children's dreams become a reality.
Fathers in Bangladesh understand the value of every hard-earned taka. They teach their children the importance of frugality and financial prudence. They demonstrate that making small adjustments and being mindful of their expenses can stretch their income to meet the family's needs. Their resourcefulness and ability to make the most out of limited resources inspire their children, imparting valuable life lessons that extend far beyond the realm of financial management.
"I have watched my father carefully manage his finances ever since I was a child. He used to estimate his monthly spending totals and then spent according to that. That does not mean that we never had fun. We had the best within our necessity and bound. I learned how crucial it is to spend money according to necessity from watching my father," said Jahirul Khandokar, a government employee.
Above all, Bangladeshi fathers are a source of unwavering love and support for their families. They may work tirelessly to provide for the family and also offer emotional stability and guidance. They are the pillars of strength that their children can lean on during times of hardship.
Fathers lend a listening ear, offer advice, and cheer on their children's achievements, whether big or small. They create an environment where their children feel loved, secure, and capable of overcoming challenges.
Adiba Jahan, a Dhaka University fresher, shared, "Often people of our age tend to hide things from their fathers. But you know, they can come up with excellent solutions and make our life easier. Whenever I fall into trouble, the first person I call is my father. Because I know no one else will give my problem as much importance as my father."
These remarkable fathers are shaping their children's lives and building a legacy for future generations. Through their hard work, resilience, and determination, they create a better future for their families and communities. Their dedication inspires their children to strive for excellence and encourages them to carry forward the values instilled in them by their fathers.
Our fathers are the unsung heroes who silently bear the burden of financial responsibility, making countless sacrifices along the way. Their love and support are beacons of hope in the face of economic challenges.
This Father's Day, let us cherish and appreciate these hardworking fathers for their immense contributions and their undying commitment to their families. Their selfless efforts deserve our heartfelt gratitude and admiration, not just on Father's Day but every day of the year.
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